So, you've met someone you're interested in who's also interested in you, and your first date is tomorrow! Here are some tips on establishing a romantic rapport and quelling the nerves from Dr. Catherine Birndorf, a psychiatrist and women's health specialist at New York-Presbyterian Hospital/Weill Cornell Medical Center in New York City:

• If you're a bit nervous, admit it, briefly. "It's much more becoming to be self-effacing," says Birndorf.
• If you're meeting for a meal, select a place that's casual and comfortable, not some fancy place that may be crowded and rush you.
• If you're a woman, asked out by a man, you might consider contributing by offering to leave the tip, split the bill or take him elsewhere for dessert. "It's a nice gesture, and it shows the other person you are capable of being generous," Birndorf says.
• Be a good listener. Most people could be better at this, she says. If you're nervous, think up a mental list of potential questions beforehand. When he or she answers, really listen.
• If a question about ex-lovers comes up, answer briefly, and move on to another topic.